jueves, 27 de marzo de 2014

Language Impact



The Language Impact on English students

I am going to begin this little dissertation on English Language Teaching by telling you a little about my own experience as a learner of English. So let’s move far back to 1988 when I first went to an English speaking country. The idea was to practice my English language in a natural environment, so I made arrangements to spend two weeks in L.A.
At that time I had studied English in different schools achieving the highest grades in my groups and finishing all the levels they offered. I had even taken the first months of a Teacher’s diploma course. So my expectations, regarding my English proficiency, when getting there were very high.
However, since my crossing the USA border to my arrival at my aunt’s house I realized that I, undoubtedly, knew English, that is I knew how to ask questions, how to explain things, that I knew how to read (signs, documents, and so on), and that a I knew English grammar, but I did not understand spoken English.
My first hours in proved that my listening skills were somehow nonexistent. I didn’t understand anybody speaking English. I remember very vividly when I entered a McDonald’s restaurant and the clerk on the other side of the counter asked me something that sounded like Ma a hep sa? It took him four repetitions and a smile to make me realize he was saying May I help you, sir?
And asking a Greyhound bus driver the best way to get to my aunt’s house, where to get off the bus and what direction to walk was an awful experience. I just watched his lips whistling words and then when he finished I muttered a thank you and got to my seat to check on my city map to find myself the best route.

I was terrified, either for realizing that people in L.A. did not speak English but a different language or that my English teachers had cheated on me for the past five years.
So, in that moment, I made two crucial decisions in my life: spend the rest of the year there and enroll at a public high school to have full exposure to the language.

The first two weeks were very difficult: I didn’t understand my teachers and I didn’t understand my classmates insults (remember I was a spanic –how I hated that word at that time- at an almost all white high school). But I didn’t give up: at the third week I understood every single insult from my classmates and eventually, I got to understand my teachers and became a very good student.

When I came back to Mexico I decided to continue with my Teacher’s diploma and I enrolled at the Anglomexicano de Cultura (now British Council) for its well known prestige.

I gave my first English class in 1995 and the first reaction of my students was that they did not understand what I was saying. I spoke “too fast” and I didn’t make any “pause” between one word and the next as their previous teachers did. It took a while to convince them that real English had nothing to do with speaking slow and with pauses between words.

Some time later in a teachers development course I talked about my experience in California and the need that English schools teach authentic English. Somebody asked me how I would call the phenomenon I went through and I decided to call it Language Impact.

In my experience as an English teacher I had the opportunity to know many cases like mine. Most of the students had the same need: to learn to understand spoken English in an authentic language enviroment. Their own experience studying at English schools and then traveling abroad proved to be disappointing.

Once speaking to one of the directors of a fashionable and growing private university in Mexico City, who happened to have studied at the same English school I studied when I was a teenager -with the same teachers, books and method-, he asked me if I had really learned English at that school. I learned to speak, I replied, but I didn’t learn to understand. He laughed. The same had happened to him. When he arrived in the USA to study his master degree he realized he didn’t understand anybody.
What had happened then? We both had had american and canadian teachers, not only mexican ones. We both had finished all English levels at that school with excellent grades, excellent knowledge of grammar rules, a large vocabulary and a good selection of idioms and phrasal verbs. Where was the flaw? In the method? The books? The teachers? The students? Not really. The problem was the lack of awareness of the language impact we students would face in case of traveling abroad.
In a natural language enviroment people in the streets don’t speak like teachers tend to do in their attempt to help English language students understand. And people’s backgrounds are very varied. “In English-speaking countries...English is not spoken in an identical manner... Different varieties or dialects of English exist, reflecting such factors as a person’s degree of education, ethnic group, social class, or geographical location.” (Richards, 1985). . So language and speaking, basically, are not that homogeneous as we believe in schools.

Language Impact definition

Language Impact (LI) could be best described as the sense of being smashed, hit or overwhelmed by the rush of words and phrases coming from the native speakers: the impact. This is the result of the uncapability of an English Language Student (ELS) to understand authentic spoken language when traveling to an English speaking country. It is just like being in the middle of a group of whales trying to decipher their chants. So the sense in the ELS is that of frustration, confusion and isolation.

Who suffers language impact?

Language Impact (LI) is not only suffered by someone who has studied a foreign language and then travels abroad to practice his suppossedly new acquired language skills, but also by anybody traveling to a country in which the language is different from their own. Imagine yourself in barbershop in Russia trying to explain the hairdresser how you want your hair done, with sign language, because you don’t speak russian. It is very likely that you end up with a hair cut different to the one you wanted. Or a tougher case, a tourist in China whose tour guide left him by accident in a small town 300 miles (it has to be miles, this is English) away from his hotel in Beijing. Explain the clerck at the small grocery store down the street you need information on how to return. And if he says something, what is he saying? But if you never went to a russian school or a chinese school, what the heck? What were you expecting?

However, LI affects more to the ones who had already studied a second language than those who hadn’t. Why? Because this latter ones didn’t have any expectations about language proficiency. And because the first ones experience a deeper level of frustration, disappointment, isolation and, most of the times, rejection towards the studied language. Another aspect involved in LI is the speaking level of the student. When a student has a low speaking level the expectations about communicating with native speakers are not really significant. On the contrary, when the student has a very good speaking level the expectations are very significant. Moreover, native speakers (let’s call them locals) are, somehow, aware about the speaking level the student has, without even knowing about their students status. If the student has a poor speaking level the response tends to be, let’s say, comprehensive, kind, gentle and helpful most of the times: in other words, the native speaker speaks slow, uses sign language and if necessary writes directions on a piece of paper to help the student; but if the student speaks very well, the native speakers answer very well, that is with a normal fluency. ¿Why? Simple, because the native speakers don’t think there is something wrong with the other’s language abilities. And that means trouble to the student walking down Grosvenor Road in London.

This could be explained with the following equations:

English Student + low speaking level = Softer Language Impact
English Student + high speaking level = Harder Language Impact

And this other equation explains a misbelief in English learning

English Student + high speaking level is not always = to a high listening
comprehension level
Or otherwise

English Student + high listening comprehension level is not always = to a high
speaking level


Recommendations to avoid the LI

For teachers:

Do not speak slow and with pauses between words. Speak as you always do.

If English is not your native language:

Be fluent (it is not necesarry to speak as a native speaker -remember the wide variety of immigrants there are in USA, Canada, Australia or England, they are fluent but their pronunciation keeps a lot from their native tongues). Don’t be afraid of speaking like Speedy Gonzalez, just remember he was a very fluent mouse.

There is not correct or better English. There is formal and informal. Of course, there is what is called Standard English (a selection made out of the English varieties taught at schools, used by T.V. anchors, and news broadcasters, for instance). Real life shows that Standard English exists only in classroom environments where English is taught and in very limited real life situations (like those mentioned above).

Provide your students with actual interviews from TV or radio programs.

Include movies in class with a detailed viewing-listening program (make clear you’ll have to stop the movie in specific moments to review listening). In movies they represent different kind of people with different backgrounds. That's very useful. And even though they are just movies, most of the characters nowadays are very realistic.

For students:

If your teachers speak like What...is...your...name? (dots meaning pause) get rid of them.

Watch American an British TV programs, not only news. Watch videos at Youtube (a famous cheff cooking, for example to learn kitchen and cooking vocabulary).

Watch films at home with captions in English or without them (never in Spanish)

Listen to radio programs in English (you can enter BBC radio on internet, or other radio stations). This is very important since radio means you are not watching people speak. One of the things students tend to do when speaking to a native speaker is watch lips movements, something like lip reading. When surrounded by two or three native speaker the student has no time to read everybody’s lips and then comes the failure.

Watch videos from The New York Times or other american or british newspapers (on internet again). In this videos you can see interviews with common people: homeless, sportsmen, police officers, car dealers, etc.

And of course, save money to travel to an English-speaking country as soon as possible to practice what you have learned.

The idea is to provide –both, students and teachers- an atmosphere of authentic English, as students will find when they travel to an English speaking country, taking into account that English teaching has to be oriented towards competitive and useful communicative skills.

Probably there are more recommendations and features regarding Language Impact. I am quite sure that those who have suffered LI could feed this dissertation with more personal experiences.
If so, you are very welcome.

Regards,
Norberto Morales
March 2007

miércoles, 20 de febrero de 2013

My topic, time and..the purpose of my research

Dear students of group 608 welcome to this English III course!!!

Click on comentarios to send your first homework.

Remember: you have to write 2 topic sentences (one for the English languages abilities and the other for the Bullying topics). Then you have to complete the chart about your own topic.

My topic:
Time and geographic limits:
What's the problem?:
Justify my topic:
What is the purpose:

See you soon,
Norbert



jueves, 11 de octubre de 2012

Deductive and inductive approaches in research

Hello, dear students, here we are again with a new assignment:

You have to search on-line for examples of deductive and inductive research.

Remember the example of the monkeys in the zoo and the arrival of the new alpha male, as an inductive approach to the problem of investigation.

Examples, no definitions.

See you later,


miércoles, 3 de octubre de 2012

Convergent and divergent thinking

What is the definition of convergent thinking?
What is the definition of divergent thinking?

Look up in an online dictionary or other source and send your definitions.

Review your classmates definitions so you don't repeat the same dictionaries or sources.
Remember: short, concise, clear definitions. And add your source.

Have a nice day!!!

miércoles, 19 de septiembre de 2012

My hypothesis

In class we began writing our research hypothesis.

According to the Merriam-Webster's Learner's dictionary, Hypothesis means:

Hy·poth·e·sis /ˌhaɪˈpɑ:θəsəs/ noun
plural hy·poth·e·ses /-əˌsi:z/

[count] : an idea or theory that is not proven but that leads to further study or discussion
Examples of use:
Other chemists rejected his hypothesis. put forward a hypothesis = advance a hypothesis Their hypothesis is that watching excessive amounts of television reduces a person's ability to concentrate. The results of the experiment did not support/confirm his hypothesis

The assigned homework was to finish and share them in this blog.
So, send them please to comments.

See you later,

domingo, 2 de septiembre de 2012

My topic, time and space limits...and the purpose on my research

Dear student, remember you have to justify your topic and complete the sentence:
"The purpose of my research is ..."

Click on comments and send your homework.

Regards,
Norbert

jueves, 9 de febrero de 2012

My name, my topic, my future profession

Dear students of group 608  Welcome to this course.
Remember: write your name, your plan to finish high school and
future studies.
Of course, you can do it in Spanish.
Click on comentarios.
See you later,
Norbert

viernes, 11 de febrero de 2011

Index

1.- Selecting and delimiting the research topic (your first pre-index)
     1.1.-Factors to consider in the choice of a research topic
     1.2.-The research protocol 
     1.3.-My first pre-index
2.- Critical thinking to construct my research
     2.1 Brain hemispheres
     2.2 Convergent and divergent thinking
     2.3 Critical thinking
     2.4 Reviewing my pre-index
3.- Methods, approaches and research terminology
4.-Calendar of activities (Working plan)
5.-Reading and writing strategies: Topic paragraph, topic sentence, main and secondary ideas
6.-Essay, monograph and research report 
7.-Research and selection of information
8.-Citing, footnotes and page numbering
9.-PPT and the public presentation (15 slides)

martes, 8 de febrero de 2011

Welcome English III groups

Dear students, we are about to begin a new course. This semester I will have the opportunity to work with groups 601, 602 and 604. In this blog you will find aids, sources and important links related to the program.
Every week I will update the blog according to what we see in class.
English III is a course aimed to help students develop basic research strategies. Since most of you are about to finish high school and present your final work (Problema Eje), this space will be devoted to guide and help you in this process.
Every entry will show an important feature or step for your acquisition of strategies as a researcher. I really expect this course helps you achieve your academic goals in this semester.

Best regards,
Norberto Morales

Key words: research, strategy, aids, sources

miércoles, 12 de enero de 2011

Brief dissertations 3: the language impact

Recommendations to avoid LI

For teachers:

Do not speak slow and with pauses between words. Speak as you always do.

If English is not your native language:

Be fluent (it is not necesary to speak as a native speaker -remember the wide variety of immigrants there are in USA, Canada, Australia or England, they are fluent but their pronunciation keeps a lot from their native tongues). Don’t be afraid of speaking like Speedy Gonzalez, just remember he was a very fluent mouse.

There is not correct or better English. There is formal and informal. Of course, there is what is called Standard English (a selection made out of the English varieties taught at schools, used by T.V. anchors, and news broadcasters, for instance). Real life shows that Standard English exists only in classroom environments where English is taught and in very limited real life situations (like those mentioned above).

Provide your students with actual interviews from TV or radio programs.

Include movies in class with a detailed viewing-listening program (make clear you’ll have to stop the movie in specific moments to review listening). In movies they represent different kind of people with different backgrounds. That's very useful. And even though they are just movies, most of the characters nowadays are very realistic.

For students:

If your teachers speak like What...is...your...name? (dots meaning pause) get rid of them.

Watch American an British TV programs, not only news. Watch videos at Youtube (a famous cheff cooking, for example to learn kitchen and cooking vocabulary).

Watch films at home with captions in English or without them (never in Spanish)

Listen to radio programs in English (you can enter BBC radio on internet, or other radio stations). This is very important since radio means you are not watching people speak. One of the things students tend to do when speaking to a native speaker is watch lips movements, something like lip reading. When surrounded by two or three native speaker the student has no time to read everybody’s lips and then comes the failure.

Watch videos from The New York Times or other american or british newspapers (on internet again). In this videos you can see interviews with common people: homeless, sportsmen, police officers, car dealers, etc.

And of course, save money to travel to an English-speaking country as soon as possible to practice what you have learned.

The idea is to provide –both, students and teachers- an atmosphere of authentic English, as students will find when they travel to an English speaking country, taking into account that English teaching has to be oriented towards competitive and useful communicative skills.

Probably there are more recommendations and features regarding Language Impact. I am quite sure that those who have suffered LI could feed this dissertation with more personal experiences.
If so, you are very welcome.

sábado, 6 de marzo de 2010

Brief dissertations on English language 3: the language impact

Language Impact definition

Language Impact (LI) could be best described as the sense of being smashed, hit or overwhelmed by the rush of words and phrases coming from the native speakers: the impact. This is the result of the uncapability of an English Language Student (ELS) to understand authentic spoken language when traveling to an English-speaking country. It is just like being in the middle of a group of whales trying to decipher their chants. So the sense in the ELS is that of frustration, confusion and isolation.

Who suffers language impact?

Language Impact (LI) is not only suffered by someone who has studied a foreign language and then travels abroad to practice his suppossedly new acquired language skills, but also by anybody traveling to a country in which the language is different from their own. Imagine yourself in barbershop in Russia trying to explain the hairdresser how you want your hair done, with sign language, because you don’t speak russian. It is very likely that you end up with a hair cut different to the one you wanted. Or a tougher case, a tourist in China whose tour guide left him by accident in a small town 300 miles (it has to be miles, this is English) away from his hotel in Beijing. Explain the clerck at the small grocery store down the street you need information on how to return. And if he says something, what is he saying? But if you never went to a russian school or a chinese school, what the heck? What were you expecting?

However, LI affects more to the ones who had already studied a second language than those who hadn’t. Why? Because this latter ones didn’t have any expectations about language proficiency. And because the first ones experience a deeper level of frustration, disappointment, isolation and, most of the times, rejection towards the studied language. Another aspect involved in LI is the speaking level of the student. When a student has a low speaking level the expectations about communicating with native speakers are not really significant. On the contrary, when the student has a very good speaking level the expectations are very significant. Moreover, native speakers (let’s call them locals) are, somehow, aware about the speaking level the student has, without even knowing about their students status. If the student has a poor speaking level the response tends to be, let’s say, comprehensive, kind, gentle and helpful most of the times: in other words, the native speaker speaks slow, uses sign language and if necessary writes directions on a piece of paper to help the student; but if the student speaks very well, the native speakers answer very well, that is with a normal fluency. ¿Why? Simple, because the native speakers don’t think there is something wrong with the other’s language abilities. And that means trouble to the student walking down Grosvenor Road in London.

This could be explained with the following equations:

English Student + low speaking level = Softer Language Impact
English Student + high speaking level = Harder Language Impact

And this other equation explains a misbelief in English learning

English Student + high speaking level is not always = to a high listening
comprehension level
Or otherwise

English Student + high listening comprehension level is not always = to a high
speaking level

to be continued...

jueves, 25 de febrero de 2010

Brief dissertations 2: the language impact

When I came back to Mexico I decided to continue with my Teacher’s diploma and I enrolled at the Anglomexicano de Cultura (now British Council) for its well known prestige.

I gave my first English class in 1995 and the first reaction of my students was that they did not understand what I was saying. I spoke “too fast” and I didn’t make any “pause” between one word and the next as their previous teachers did. It took a while to convince them that real English had nothing to do with speaking slow and with pauses between words.

Some time later in a teachers development course I talked about my experience in California and the need that English schools teach authentic English. Somebody asked me how I would call the phenomenom I went through and I decided to call it Language Impact.

In my experience as an English teacher I had the opportunity to know many cases like mine. Most of the students had the same need: to learn to understand spoken English in an authentic language enviroment. Their own experience studying at English schools and then traveling abroad proved to be disappointing.

Once speaking to one of the directors of the UNITEC, a fashionable and growing private university in Mexico City, who happened to have studied at the same English school I studied when I was a teenager -with the same teachers, books and method- he asked me if I had really learned English at that school. I learned to speak, I replied, but I didn’t learn to understand. He laughed. The same had happened to him. When he arrived in the USA to study his master degree he realized he didn’t understand anybody.
What had happened then? We both had had american and canadian teachers, not only mexican ones. We both had finished all English levels at that school with excellent grades, excellent knowledge of grammar rules, a large vocabulary and a good selection of idioms and phrasal verbs. Where was the flaw? In the method? The books? The teachers? The students? Not really. The problem was the lack of awareness of the language impact we students would face in case of traveling abroad.
In a natural language enviroment people in the streets don’t speak like teachers tend to do in their attempt to help English language students understand. And people’s backgrounds are very varied. “In English-speaking countries...English is not spoken in an identical manner... Different varieties or dialects of English exist, reflecting such factors as a person’s degree of education, ethnic group, social class, or geographical location.” (Richards, 1985). . So language and speaking, basically, are not that homogeneous as we believe in schools.

Language Impact definition

Language Impact (LI) could be best described as the sense of being smashed, hit or overwhelmed by the rush of words and phrases coming from the native speakers: the impact. This is the result of the uncapability of an English Language Student (ELS) to understand authentic spoken language when traveling to an English-speaking country. It is just like being in the middle of a group of whales trying to decipher their chants. So the sense in the ELS is that of frustration, confusion and isolation.


To be continued...

martes, 24 de noviembre de 2009

Brief dissertation on English language teaching


Brief Dissertations on English Language Teaching
March 2007
The Language Impact on English students
I am going to begin this series of little dissertations on English Language Teaching by telling you a little about my own experience as a learner of English. So let’s move far back to 1988 when I first went to an English speaking country. The idea was to practice my English language in a natural environment, so I made arrangements to spend two weeks in California. At that time I had studied English in different schools achieving the highest grades in my groups and finishing all the levels they offered. I had even taken the first months of a Teacher’s diploma course. So my expectations, regarding my English proficiency, when getting to L.A. were very high.
However, since my crossing the USA border to my arrival at my aunt’s house I realized that I, undoubtedly, knew English, that is I knew how to ask questions, how to explain things, that I knew how to read (signs, documents, and so on), and that a I knew English grammar, but I did not understand spoken English. My first hours in USA proved that my listening skills were somehow nonexistent. I didn’t understand anybody speaking English. I remember very vividly when I entered a McDonald’s restaurant and the clerk on the other side of the counter asked me something that sounded like Me a hep a sa? It took him four repetitions and a smile to make me realize he was saying May I help you, sir? And asking a Greyhound bus driver the best way to get to my aunt’s house, where to get off the bus and what direction to walk was an awful experience. I just watched his lips whistling words and then when he finished I muttered a thank you and got to my seat to check on my city map to find myself the best route.

I was terrified, either for realizing that people in America did not speak English but a different language or that my English teachers had cheated on me for the past five years.
So, in that moment, I made two crucial decisions in my life: spend the rest of the year in California and enroll at a public high school to have full exposure to the language.
The first two weeks were very difficult: I didn’t understand my teachers and I didn’t understand my classmates insults (remember I was a hispanic –how I hated that word at that time- at an almost all white high school). But I didn’t give up: at the third week I understood every single insult from my classmates and eventually, I got to understand my teachers and became a very good student.
To be continued…

viernes, 30 de octubre de 2009

A very short story

This was a very short storytelling contest among letters.
A capital letter began her story, and it was such a boring story that when she
finished, everybody was Zzzz.

Have a nice weekend.

martes, 20 de octubre de 2009

Calculate your Body Mass Index

The homework this week is to calculate your Body Mass Index. If you are between 20 and 24 you have an adequate weight. If you are under 20 you need to eat better. On the other hand, if you are over 24, you need to eat more balanced food. Go to the next link to calculate your BMI.
Then send me your index.

See you,


http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/






miércoles, 7 de octubre de 2009

Younger than/older than

Important language: older than, the oldest

younger than, the youngest









Dayanara 35---- Kate 34---- Megan 23----Kristen 19

Complete the sentences:

Dayanara _______________.

Kate is 34 years old.

Megan is _______________

___________ is 19 years old.


Complete the questions:

Is Kate 34 years old? Yes, ________.

_________23 years old? Yes, she_____.

___________________? Yes, she is.

Is Kristen 34 years old? No, she isn’t.

Is________23________? No,_________

__________35________? ____________

How old _____________? She’s_________


Follow and complete the sequences:

1.-Dayanara is older than Kate. Kate is _______________ Megan. Megan is ____________ Kristen.

Dayanara is the oldest. (But she is also the most beautiful).


Kristen is younger than Megan. Megan is _______________ Kate. Kate is ____________ Dayanara.

Kristen is the __________.


2.-Kristen is 4 years younger than Megan. Megan is __________________Kate.

Kate is_____________________ Dayanara.

Dayanara is 1 year older than Kate. Kate is______________________Megan.

Megan is ______________________ Kristen.



martes, 6 de octubre de 2009

Comparatives and superlatives

Here you have some exercises to practice comparatives.
Important language:
more expensive than
cheaper than
the most expensive
the cheapest

Passat CC $500,000




Bora $300,00




Jetta $200
,000




Gol GT $150,000






1.-The Passat CC is $500,000 (five hundred thousand pesos).
2.-The Passat CC is more expensive than the Bora.
3.-The Bora is more expensive than Jetta.
4.-The Jetta is more expensive than the Gol.
5.-The Passat CC is the most expensive VW car.

Yes/No/How much questions

Is the Passat CC $500,000? Yes, it is.
Is the Bora more expensive than the Jetta? Yes, it is
Is the Gol more expensive than the Bora? No, it isn’t
Is the Jetta more expensive than the Passat CC? No, it isn't
How much is the Jetta? It is $200,000

1.-The Gol is 150,000 (one hundred, fifty thousand pesos).
2.-The Gol is cheaper than the Jetta.
3.-The Jetta is cheaper than the Bora.
4.-The Bora is cheaper than the Passat CC.
5.-The Gol is the cheapest VW car.

Homework: Write 3 Yes and 3 No questions with cheaper than and 1 How much question.

sábado, 28 de marzo de 2009

No homework this weekend

Yeeees¡ You don't have homework this weekend.
So spend the time with the people you love or just relaxing.
Listen to your favorite music and see a good movie.
Maybe you prefer to go dancing. Guuau¡
See you next week.

Regards,
Your teacher Norbert

viernes, 20 de marzo de 2009

The Evaluation

Hi, dear students:

This weekend the homework is very simple. You don’t have to investigate anything in the libraries, you don’t have to go to any link. All you have to do is to write a ONE page report about your signatures in this sixth semester. In this report you have to analyze all the classes you are taking this semester. You can include opinions and comments, but remember you have to be respectful of everybody.

In particular, I am very much interested in your analysis of our class, the English class. Of course, this report includes the analysis of what you have done in the course so far, until this moment.

And to finish, you have to imagine you are the teacher and you have to evaluate yourself. What would you put your student, an Avanza or a Recursa in this moment of the semester? And you have to explain the reasons.

You have to send your homework to nobymor@gmail.com

Remember, it has to be ONE complete page, written in coherent Spanish, with no spelling mistakes.

Have a very nice weekend,

Sincerely,

Your teacher Norberto

viernes, 13 de marzo de 2009

Time travel and love, Uuuhf¡

Hi, dear students. I expect you are having a very nice weekend.

Well, let’s do the homework. As I told you in class you have to investigate the title of a book, the name of the author, the publishing house, the city and the year.
Of course, you have to send me this information in the correct order of a bibliographical reference.

A very good friend told me he read a novel. He said the novel was excellent and he recommended me to read it.
I don’t remember the author. I don’t remember the title, either, but I remember the story:


It is about a man with a genetic disorder. This disorder does not exist in reality, only in the novel.
So what happens to this man is that he travels in time involuntarily: from present to past, from past to present, and from present to future.
Since this is a science fiction story time traveling is possible. But this is also a love story. And in love stories you have a counterpart, in this case a woman. The woman is the wife of the time traveler.
The time traveler goes back to her past a number of times, to her infancy and adolescence. In one of these visits he tells her they will get married in the future (the future is the present from where he begins his travels). When she is 20 years old and he is 40 years old they get married. He also travels to the future. His last travel to the future causes his death. He returns to the present just in time to die in the arms of his beloved wife.

But that is not all: the devastated wife discovers a letter from his husband in which he describes an encounter they will have when she is an old woman.
So she will see him again one more time.

Could you help me find out what novel is this?

Thank you!